On November 5th, 2012 our lives were changed forever with the words, “There was no infection present, I’m so sorry”. This came after a biopsy confirmed our 3 year old son Jake had a rare form of cancer called Ewing’s sarcoma. We had never heard those words before, and always brushed pediatric cancer off as cute bald kids holding stuffed animals and balloons.
It wasn't our child….it wasn't our problem.
It became our problem that day, and we realized quickly just how big of a problem this was. It was far from cute bald kids that were holding teddy bears. For the next 10 months our little boy would be exposed to chemo drugs that were developed in the 1950's and 60's, multiple surgeries including an allograft to rebuild his deteriorated left tibia, countless hours of crying and screaming. He spent Christmas of that year in the hospital on a morphine pump for pain, the next Easter in the hospital, and even his 4th birthday. He was given the title “Survivor” and NED on 9/17/2013 as his scans showed him to be cancer free, which has remained the case to this day. It didn't stop our fight though, because cancer tried to take our little boy from us. It made us angry….
How can so many diseases that destroy families and take children receive so little attention from society and our leaders? How can so little be done to help our most vulnerable citizens? Why had a never seen a GOLD ribbon in my life until my son was fighting for his life when this is the number 1 disease killer of children in the United States?!?!??
I am just a dad who loves his family. I can’t cure cancer no matter how smart I may think I am….so what can I do?
I can run…..and I will. I’ll run because 5 hours of pain is absolutely nothing compared to what kids go through everyday in hospitals everywhere. I’ll run because everyday families hear the words we heard, and worse some hear “there’s nothing more we can do”. This isn't acceptable…it must change…..so I’ll run until it does.
Please donate something…anything….for Jake….for so many others….let’s be the change.
Your story is a very powerful and sad one and I'd be lying if I said it didn't break my heart. I am truly sorry that your family is going through this especially with your son being so little and innocent not that it would be any better if he were older. One of my best friends was recently diagnosed with Ewing's Sarcoma at the age of 23 and it's been tough.
ReplyDeletePraying for your family.