Dear 6-year-old Jake

Dear Jake,

  Another year has gone by in a flash and here you are, already six.  Mere words could never accurately describe my love for you.  You are an amazing person.  You are brilliant, funny, thoughtful, gentle, compassionate, and kind.  You always take the time to show others how you feel about them. You are still my baby boy in a lot of ways, yet you are very mature.  You still have no idea what you've overcome, how much of a hero you are, or how you've inspired others.  I hope to share all of this with you some day when you're ready.  You excelled in kindergarten this year, in all areas, but especially in reading.  You are very creative - you love to color, play Minecraft, and build with Lego's.  Recently you have aspired to come a "doctor who treats kids in the hospital" and an architect.  I will help you in any way possible to make your dreams come true.  You rarely get in trouble, but if you do it's because of your temper.  You can get mad if you don't get your way, and boy can you bicker with your sister.
  
  You love to play golf and swim - both great sports choices for you!  Otherwise you are a very active boy who loves hide and seek and playing at the playground.  I'm so glad you are living the normal childhood you deserve and I can't wait to see who you become and what you accomplish in life. 

  I love you, my sweet pea.

               Mommy

Rally for Jake (and all kids fighting cancer)

On November 5th, 2012 our lives were changed forever with the words, “There was no infection present, I’m so sorry”. This came after a biopsy confirmed our 3 year old son Jake had a rare form of cancer called Ewing’s sarcoma. We had never heard those words before, and always brushed pediatric cancer off as cute bald kids holding stuffed animals and balloons.

It wasn't our child….it wasn't our problem.

It became our problem that day, and we realized quickly just how big of a problem this was. It was far from cute bald kids that were holding teddy bears. For the next 10 months our little boy would be exposed to chemo drugs that were developed in the 1950's and 60's, multiple surgeries including an allograft to rebuild his deteriorated left tibia, countless hours of crying and screaming. He spent Christmas of that year in the hospital on a morphine pump for pain, the next Easter in the hospital, and even his 4th birthday. He was given the title “Survivor” and NED on 9/17/2013 as his scans showed him to be cancer free, which has remained the case to this day. It didn't stop our fight though, because cancer tried to take our little boy from us. It made us angry….

How can so many diseases that destroy families and take children receive so little attention from society and our leaders? How can so little be done to help our most vulnerable citizens? Why had a never seen a GOLD ribbon in my life until my son was fighting for his life when this is the number 1 disease killer of children in the United States?!?!??

I am just a dad who loves his family. I can’t cure cancer no matter how smart I may think I am….so what can I do?

I can run…..and I will. I’ll run because 5 hours of pain is absolutely nothing compared to what kids go through everyday in hospitals everywhere. I’ll run because everyday families hear the words we heard, and worse some hear “there’s nothing more we can do”. This isn't acceptable…it must change…..so I’ll run until it does.

Please donate something…anything….for Jake….for so many others….let’s be the change.

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