We were asked by Jill Slabacheski, a student and member of Rally at UGA, to do an interview about our family and experiences with cancer and Rally Foundation. She was creating a campaigns project for one of her classes and decided to do it about the Rally Foundation. For one of the pieces, she wrote a magazine spread showing the heart of the organization. Below is the article she wrote. (We think she did an awesome job!)
The Russell family was thrown for a loop when they brought Jake in to the
hospital for what they thought was a minor injury but received news that would change their lives forever.
For about six weeks, Jake had been waking up at night with a sore ankle, which parents Randy and Kait presumed to be “growing pains,” for he was at the susceptible age. On October 11, 2012, a kid on a bicycle hit Jake in the street, and two days later he had whacked his shin on a chair causing him agony. Thinking he might have fractured his tibia when he had fallen two days prior, Randy and Kait took Jake to his pediatrician and she ordered an x-ray.
When the doctors relayed the news to the family that Jake had Ewings Sarcoma, a rare bone cancer most common for those in their early teen years, the family was at a loss for words.
“I remember looking at Kait and seeing the pain in her eyes and holding her,”
Randy said, “I was completely numb for 24 hours. It seemed like a bad dream that I was sure I would wake up from.” Kait agreed. She recalls thinking, “Oh my God, my baby has cancer. This is really happening – this is not a dream.”
Being so young, Jake and the other two children, Ethan and Aubrey, did not fully understand the extent of the procedures and everything surrounding the processes in general. They knew Jake was sick and needed to be taken care of, but the ability to grasp the intensity of the matter was unattainable. Kait believes this was more or less a good thing because they did not know that Jake’s life was in danger with every step they took throughout the journey. Ethan, the eldest of the three, was worried about his best friend’s continuous visits to the hospital, but never fully comprehended the need for the revisits.
Ethan, whose main goal throughout the entire process was to keep a smile on Jake’s face, never failed to stay strong. When asked what his favorite part about being a big brother is, he proudly responded, “Protecting [my] little brother and sister.” After watching the way the three of these children interact, I do not think anyone would disagree with this statement.
Jake spent the majority of his time receiving treatment and recuperating at
Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta, Egelston, at the Aflac Cancer and Blood Disorders Center. An extensive process calls for an extensive team, and Jake received top of the line care from an amazing group of individuals. Pediatrician Dr. Hutchins-Howard, oncologists Dr. Katzenstein and Dr. Cash, surgeons Dr. Fletcher and Dr. Oskouei, Jake’s favorite nurse Lauren Yeomans, child/life specialist Layne Umberger, and all of the countless other employees of CHOA made Jake’s fight a pleasant one, and never ceased to make the Russell family feel as comfortable as possible.
“I honestly don’t know how they do it, going in and smiling everyday,”
commented Randy, “We never seemed to meet an employee that wasn't in a good mood. I don’t know how you deal with what they do on a daily basis and still smile. They are special people.”
Devastating events such as a pediatric cancer diagnosis put a family’s strength
and love to the test. The Russell family fought through a heart wrenching
experience that most families only visit in their worst nightmares. Not only have they become closer, but also they have learned how important the entire family unit is in crisis situations. As parents, Randy and Kait have learned that life is a precious gift and every day should be enjoyed and spent learning the ropes of life, no matter the road you take to get there. They have become more open to accepting the idea of “what is,” rather than thinking about the “what if’s” in life.
“I have learned that children are much stronger than adults. I learned that I’m a
lot stronger than I thought I was. I learned that cancer itself is very painful and the treatment for it can be almost as bad,” Kait said. “You learn also that it’s okay to hurt, and that it’s okay to let people see that you’re hurt. It’s what makes us human,” Randy added.
The Russell family continues to take everything that they have learned over the past couple of years and put it in to their daily lives. This year, Ethan is attending Camp Sunshine in Atlanta where he will spend time with children and families that have gone through similar experiences. Campers who have endured the challenges of cancer in their family create a network of support and gain new strength and hope as they learn from one another’s experiences. The Russell’s also have all become strong advocates for the Rally Foundation and Be the Match, spreading awareness of pediatric cancer and sister organizations. Childhood cancer research and awareness is extremely underfunded, which is both alarming and unacceptable. Children and adults are different in terms of
what they can physically endure for medical treatments, and it is imperative that this focus be paid more attention, for it is the leading cause of death for children ages 0-19 in the United States. This is why they Rally.
Jake had commented on the fact that if he could be any superhero, he would be Superman. Little does he know, he is the true superhero himself after defeating the harshest form of kryptonite imaginable.
