The Rug Under our Feet

Kait (Jake's Mommy):
We keep hearing of children becoming seriously ill or even dying from infections and complications from the effects of chemo.  It is amazing how in the blink of an eye your child can go from playing to fighting for his life.  Jake is doing well today, but nothing is promised and at any moment he could fall ill as well.  Every day I pray to God to keep watch over Jake.  Please don't let the rug get swept out from under us.  I don't ever want to be told to "say our goodbyes" to him because he may not make it through the night.  I hate having these thoughts on a daily basis.  I hate walking on eggshells and living in fear.  I can't wait to tell Jake that he is done getting chemo...done with shots...done with finger pokes.  Can't you just imagine the smile on his face when we get to tell him that?  I'm so thankful that we are getting closer to being able to with every passing day.  I know he is ready to be done going to the hospital too.  I think he must have dreams about going there because he wakes up and the first thing he says is "Do I have to go to an appointment today?"  It sucks that he has to go through this.  A four year old, let alone any child, should not have to worry about getting poked and prodded on a daily basis.  It's safe to say that this "cancer" thing is getting old. 

So there's my long overdue rant, now hopefully I can more forward.  Jake has four more treatments to complete until his protocol is finished.  Today is day 6 (day one is the first day he received chemo this round) and his counts will get to a low point any time between now and day 10.  He goes in for a clinic appointment to check blood counts on Monday and he will also get a (day 8) Vincristine (chemo drug) push while we are there.  This will be a short appointment but nonetheless, he will not be happy about going.  The boot he has been wearing on his left leg has become too big for him and it starts sliding off and rubbing on his foot almost immediately after we put it on.  It has gotten to where he doesn't even want to wear it because it is uncomfortable.  So, I called his surgeon and scheduled an appointment to get him refitted for a new boot this Tuesday.  Hopefully that will solve the problem of getting him to keep the boot on.  I get so worried about him playing on the floor and crawling around with nothing protecting his leg.  Our house is pretty full since we have two adults, three kids, two dogs, and two cats living here.  It's a zoo and it's never quiet, but we wouldn't change it for the world.  But, it does mean that there is always someone running around who could step on or trip over Jake's leg.  Should I let him play and have a good time with his brother and sister, or try to keep him in a protective bubble?  I want to let them play because it is such a sweet sound hearing them laugh.  But would it be worth having something happen to his leg?  I don't know the answer, but I think it is important for the kids to have fun together.  I only hope that the way that I take care of them and the choices that I make for them are the right ones.